Matthew 12:46-50 Mark 3:31-35 Luke 8:19-21

46 While He was still speaking to the crowds, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him. 47 Someone said to Him, “Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You.” 48 But Jesus answered the one who was telling Him and said, “Who is My mother and who are My brothers?” 49 And stretching out His hand toward His disciples, He said, “Behold My mother and My brothers! 50 “For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother.”
31 Then His mother and His brothers arrived, and standing outside they sent word to Him and called Him. 32 A crowd was sitting around Him, and they said to Him, “Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are outside looking for You.” 33 Answering them, He said, “Who are My mother and My brothers?” 34 Looking about at those who were sitting around Him, He said, “Behold My mother and My brothers! 35 “For whoever does the will of God, he is My brother and sister and mother.”
19 And His mother and brothers came to Him, and they were unable to get to Him because of the crowd. 20 And it was reported to Him, “Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside, wishing to see You.” 21 But He answered and said to them, “My mother and My brothers are these who hear the word of God and do it.”
Family is a wonderful blessing from God but it can also become an idol in our lives.  We know very little about Mary, Joseph and their children during the years that Jesus was growing up.  There is a great deal of speculation about what it must have been like to grow up in the same home with Jesus.  We don’t know if Jesus healed birds as a child.  Being omniscient, He must have been the all-time champion hide and go seek player.  The Bible does not tell us about the family life of Jesus as He was growing up.  What we do know is that Jesus loved His family very much and that one of His instructions from the cross was concerning the care of Mary, His mother.  We also know from other Scriptures that His brothers did not believe in Him until after the resurrection.  However, once they did believe, they became very prominent leaders in the church and James and Jude wrote the books of the Bible that were named after them.  In today’ text we see one of the few encounters between Jesus and His family.  It does not give us very much information but it does provide us with some interesting insights.

THE EXPECTATION OF JESUS’S FAMILY: As Jesus was teaching and the crowd were gathered around Him; His mother and brothers want to see Him but cannot reach Him because of the crowd surrounding Him.  It is believed that Joseph died sometime after the children were all born.  This passage also lays to rest the idea that Mary remained a virgin after the birth of Jesus.  We do not know what Mary and the brothers wanted when they came to visit Jesus.  Perhaps they were concerned about His safety because the heard about the confrontations between Him and the Pharisees.  Perhaps they were there to try to convince Him to stop being so controversial.  It seems that they expected to have immediate access to Him because of their close relationship but that they were having a hard time due to the size of the crowd.  Perhaps it came as a surprise to them to see the number of people who were following Jesus.  It is hard for us to imagine someone we grow up with becoming famous.  Whatever the case, it seems that there was frustration on the part of the family because they were not able to have access to Jesus.  Many times ministry and the Mission of God to take the Gospel to all the nations of the world requires that we spend significant periods of time separated from our families.       

THE EXPANSION OF JESUS’S FAMILY: When Jesus is informed that His family is looking for Him, His response takes us by surprise.  At first glance, it seems like He is ignoring His mother and brothers and dismissing them an unimportant.  However, that is not the point of what Jesus is saying.  Instead of seeing this as a dismissal of His physical family, we should look at this as being and expansion of His spiritual family.  Jesus gestures to the disciples who have turned their backs on their business and left families in order to follow Him and He says that these disciples are His family.  He goes even further to say that all men who do the will of the Father are His family.  It is an astounding truth to consider that we can be a part of the family of Jesus by following the Father’s will and trusting in Jesus as our Savior from sin.  Jesus was not excluding His mother and brothers from His family; He was simply including His disciples and all of us who believe.


APPLICATION: We need to be willing to live separated from our parents, siblings and grown children in order to spread the fame of Christ and fulfill the mission of God in the nations.  We should not be surprised when unbelieving family members do not understand our commitment to the mission.  Be eternally grateful that we can be members of the family of Jesus by doing His will.

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