Luke 14:7-11
7 And He began speaking
a parable to the invited guests when He noticed how they had been picking out
the places of honor at the table, saying to them, 8 “When you are
invited by someone to a wedding feast, do not take the place of honor, for
someone more distinguished than you may have been invited by him, 9 and he who
invited you both will come and say to you, ‘Give your place to
this man,’ and then in disgrace you proceed to occupy the last place. 10 “But when you
are invited, go and recline at the last place, so that when the one who has
invited you comes, he may say to you, ‘Friend, move up higher’; then you will
have honor in the sight of all who are at the table with you. 11 “For everyone
who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be
exalted.”
Pride is one of those areas that seems to be at the root of
every one of our sins. It is ironic that
self-promotion is one of the acts we despise the most in others and yet is one
of our most common tendencies. It is
only by the supernatural work of God’s grace that we can be set free from the
constant temptation to exalt ourselves. Jesus
warns us about the subtle ways we manifest pride in His parable of the wedding
feast. He noticed the guests at the
breakfast He was attending competing for the most privileged spots. He warns us about the dangers of presuming
our own honor and shows us how the path to true honor is through humility, not
self-promotion.
THOSE WHO EXALT THEMSELVES WILL BE HUMBLED: We tend to
presume that we are more important than we truly are. The Bible constantly alerts us to be careful
not to think of ourselves more highly than we ought to think. In this case Jesus uses a wedding feast as an
example. When going to a wedding, don’t
go sit in a place of honor, presuming that you are one of the most important
guests. Those who take the places of
honor run the risk of being asked to give up their place when a more
distinguished guest arrives. This would
be a very humiliating experience. We
risk this kind of humiliation whenever we exalt ourselves or consider ourselves
to be more important than we truly are. Since
this is a natural tendency in all our lives, we need to combat this thought
process in our own minds. Strive to dial
your thoughts about yourself down. This
may be difficult, but it will help us avoid putting ourselves in humiliating
situations. It is far better to humble
ourselves than to be humiliated by others.
THOSE WHO HUMBLE THEMSELVES WILL BE EXALTED: Jesus tells His
audience what they ought to do when invited to a wedding feast. His instruction is to simply go to the place of
least importance and sit there. Simply
presume that you are the least important guest present at the wedding. If that is not true, the host will come and insist
that you move up to a place of higher honor.
This would be an honor in the eyes of all the other guests. It is a very simple advice that sounds so
easy to follow. However, it is not
nearly as easy as it sounds. We begin to
think about being stuck with the worst seat in the house if the host doesn’t
happen to notice where we are sitting.
It is clear that Jesus teaches we should not be concerned if that were
to happen. His basic teaching is that we
should be willing to sit in the lowest place because it will bless others who
we consider as more important than ourselves. Self-sacrifice is not nearly as natural as
self-promotion. God calls us to go
beyond what is natural and do that which is supernatural in the power of His
Spirit. Simply put, we should go through
life constantly asking ourselves what would be best for the other person and
not ourselves.
APPLICATION: It may be hard for us to identify what the
places of honor are in a wedding reception today, other than the head table. However, we all find many ways to promote
ourselves in subtle and not so subtle ways.
Be alert to tendencies to “fish” for complements. Evaluate our motives for doing the things we
do. Are they for the glory of God or for
the praise of men? Seek for ways to practice
“secret service” do things to help others when they have no idea it was you who
helped them.
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