Song of Solomon 7:1-13
Sexuality is something that we are very uncomfortable
talking about in Christian circles. I
believe that there is wisdom in limiting our openness about these things to a
degree. However, I also believe that it
is foolish and unbiblical to ignore them all together or to treat it as some
sort of sinful activity. The world has
over emphasized sexuality and become so crass in their treatment of sexuality
that the church has gone to the opposite extreme and made it an untouchable subject. This chapter of the Bible demonstrates the
beauty and holiness of sexual desire and relationships within the commitment of
marriage. These things are not only bless
by God, but created by God for our pleasure and ultimately for His glory.
SOLOMON IS INSPIRED BY HIS BRIDE: Once again, Solomon is
smitten by the beauty of his wife. Every
part of her body inspires his admiration and ignites his passion for her. Men are sexually stimulated by sight and women
are sexually stimulated by words of affection.
She is available for him to admire and he is eloquently describing her
beauty to her. This is a couple that is
delighting in the beautiful relationship that God has created for them. We should not be embarrassed by these things;
instead we should imitate them in our own marriages as we seek to fulfill the
sexual desires of our spouses in the way that God intended.
SOLOMON IS INVITED BY HIS BRIDE: Solomon’s admiring and
inspiring words do not fall upon deaf ears.
His wife responds to his words with words of her own that invite him to
come and enjoy the delights of her body that she has reserved exclusively for
him. She desires him as much as he
desires her and together they seek to serve and delight one another according
to the design of God and the desires of their hearts. If we are going to enjoy God’s gift to the
fullest, we must learn to stimulate and respond to one another freely and
regularly. Wives must allow their
husbands to see their beauty, husbands must learn to complement the beauty of
their wives and they both should dive deep in the desires that God has given
them for one another with complete freedom.
Rejection and routine should not be the words that describe the
sexuality of those who love God and live according the principles of Scripture.
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